This is a really dumb API wart. Now that we have a limited set of curves that
are all reasonable, the automatic logic should just always kick in. This makes
set_ecdh_auto a no-op and, instead of making it the first choice, uses it as
the fallback behavior should none of the older curve selection APIs be used.

Currently, by default, server sockets can only use the plain RSA key exchange.

BUG=481139

Change-Id: Iaabc82de766cd00968844a71aaac29bd59841cd4
Reviewed-on: https://boringssl-review.googlesource.com/4531
Reviewed-by: Adam Langley <agl@google.com>