There's multiple sets of APIs for selecting the curve. Fold away
SSL_OP_SINGLE_ECDH_USE as failing to set it is either a no-op or a bug. With
that gone, the consumer only needs to control the selection of a curve, with
key generation from then on being uniform. Also clean up the interaction
between the three API modes in s3_srvr.c; they were already mutually exclusive
due to tls1_check_ec_tmp_key.
This also removes all callers of EC_KEY_dup (and thus CRYPTO_dup_ex_data)
within the library.
Change-Id: I477b13bd9e77eb03d944ef631dd521639968dc8c
Reviewed-on: https://boringssl-review.googlesource.com/4200
Reviewed-by: Adam Langley <agl@google.com>