lh_FOO_retrieve is often called with a dummy instance of FOO that has
only a few fields filled in. This works fine for C, but a C++
SSL_SESSION with destructors is a bit more of a nuisance here.

Instead, teach LHASH to allow queries by some external key type. This
avoids stack-allocating SSL_SESSION. Along the way, fix the
make_macros.sh script.

Change-Id: Ie0b482d4ffe1027049d49db63274c7c17f9398fa
Reviewed-on: https://boringssl-review.googlesource.com/29586
Commit-Queue: David Benjamin <davidben@google.com>
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Reviewed-by: Adam Langley <agl@google.com>