This promotes a connection hang during TLS handshake to a proper error.
This doesn't fully address #14539 because the error reported in that
case is a write-on-socket-not-connected error, which implies that an
earlier error during connection setup is not being checked, but it is
an improvement over the current behaviour.

Updates #14539.

Change-Id: I0571a752d32d5303db48149ab448226868b19495
Reviewed-on: https://go-review.googlesource.com/19990
Reviewed-by: Adam Langley <agl@golang.org>